“We Need to Get Rid of this Nigger”: Mass Killing in Connecticut

Omar Thornton was a 34 year old African-American male who worked at a Budweiser Beer Plant. He worked his way up from the warehouse to a driver. Many of the whites felt that he rose to the top too quickly.  This guy WAS a victim of serious racism that resulted in a blood-bath of  murder and suicide.   He called his mother after the shootings and said, “ I killed the five guys that were harrassing me and now I am going to kill myself.” The headlines read, “ 9 dead, possible racial motive“.

The media wants to know if  Omar was an angry and frustrated  Black Man? I can answer this question, definitely yes.  I am also frustrated and sick of the racism, but as a board-certified  physician I can take my credentials and go elsewhere.  As a matter-of-fact, I just quit a job last month with a racist supervisor. I will share my story in a few days.

This is the story:

Mr. Thornton attended a disciplinary meeting for allegations of stealing. The media states that they had a video tape of him stealing product. This fact has not been confirmed as of yet by this writer.  The meeting was to “discuss” some behaviors that were suspect. Mr. Thornton, by all the reports( his white girlfriend, uncle, union representatives and friends) was a calm and respectful person that did not bother anybody.  I personally believe that the so-called stealing allegations are  just a distraction. The company was probably preparing to get rid of this “nigger“  and unknowingly this guy was carrying a gun and had taken all that he could at this job. (Omar had a tape of a recorded conversation where “we need to get rid of this nigger” was stated in a bathroom at his workplace) Believe it or not, the same thing happened to me several years ago when I was in medical school. I was in the stall and my so-called residents did not know that I was also in the restroom. The more things change, the more they stay the same.

Omar signed the resignation, went to the water fountain, got his gun and began shooting.   I Do Not endorse this violent  behavior, but I certainly understand his plight. Attention, attention, long-term anger and frustration will infatically  lead  to primitive rage.  As a black Psychiatrists, I am inundated daily with FMLA and disability papers as a result of workplace racism and harrassment. I usually see about 5-10 requests per week. This is from both new and existing patients.   I support employees who have valid complaints with or without  evidence. Now of course, the white union representative, in this case,  is certainly going to workplace allegations and  have amnesia and or deny the fact that this guy had complained in the past.   Also, black men, be sure that you are prepared to deal with what most probably will follow, if you choose to  date outside of your race. Brothers nothing has changed in America. Enough said.

It appears that management was negligent and did not prepare for the possible outcome of the Thornton dismissal. They really underestimated the fury and anger of this man that had been dealing with the racism in Manchester, Conneticut. I would advise any company to take reports of “workplace  harrassment” seriously. I am available to help companies with this issue if needed. Feel free to call 404-575-4785.

In the meeting he was told to either resign or he would be fired.  He was one of only two Blacks at this company. Thornton was supposedly accused of stealing at the meeting. “He’s shooting , he’s shooting call 911,” is what the receptionist said. Omar called several people, after his shooting spree, and shared his story. Omar’s girfriend is White.    Yes, this is an important factor here in America.  His girlfriend’s mother  reports that there had been hangman’s noose on the bathroom wall, a stick figure with a noose around the neck also on the bathroom wall at this company.  Omar actually had voice recordings of his supervisors saying, “We need to get Rid of this Nigger.” (This conversation, by his supervisors, took place in the bathroom. No one checked the stalls before the discussion. Evidently, they had never seen the movie ”Lean on Me”)  When Omar took this to his superiors, they told him that they would check into this comment. It was stated, by the girlfriend,  that Omar was going to seek out legal counsel, however he took an alternative route. Another murder-suicide but was this one justified?

Omar had proof of his maltreatment. I too have proof on mine. Racism in America, is really getting worse in my opinion. If you would recall, Mel Gibson’s racist rant is still in the news. Would you believe that this is my most visited blogpost, since the inception of my blog. It is still number one today.

This is certainly a tragic story. However, were the men that were killed the “actual” perpetuators of the racist remarks? Do you think the the tragedy in Manchester is really a sign of things to come? Are African-American men getting tired of the maltreatment in America? Does America have to address what is going on in society with the unfair treatment, unemployment and low wages in the workplace. I do not support workplace violence, but if the racism is not dealt with properly soon, I am afraid we are going to here more stories like this one. Let ,me hear your thoughts on this serious issue. Is racism and harrassment alive in the workplace?

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  • Sean F

    You are very off base on this one. Trying to rationalize what this guy did is ridiculous, In my book his actions paint him as an “unreliable witness”. When I read about this story what suprized me most was that the shooter was black. It is my understanding that the killer in this sort of workplace/school shooting, at least up until now, has been a white male whole people stereotypically describe as a loner or odd. I’m sure the kids involved in the Columbine shootings, that guy who killed two people in a New Mexico office last month, and all the other workplace shooters had grievances too. The real problem here isn’t racism, the real problem here is whatever is causing people to increasingly lash out in this fashion, that is what those in the psychiatric community should figure out. The man went on a rampage, he took out his issues not just on those who he felt wronged him but whoever was at hand, I mean he killed his union rep who was trying to help him. I am just glad that when you were faced with racism iback n that bathroom back in medical school you took a more sane course of action!

    • AskDrO

      @Sean F. This is a great argument. However, my convictions are still the same.

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  • Dr. F

    Dr. O,

    I find it odd that you disbelieve the distributor’s claims that this man was a thief ( proof of which they have on video tape, and which was shown to him and his union rep) yet you strongly believe the claims of Racism from a man who became a mass murderer.

    Dr. F

    • AskDrO

      @Dr.F It is indeed trye that he could have possibly taken some product. However, that does not excuse the nooses in the restroom, the use of the “n” word by supervisors and or the harsh atmosphere of racism that I am almost sure exist in this city and workplace. What is your position on racism in America?

    • S. Short

      He probably was stealing & drinking beer to cope with the racism he was dealing with

      • AskDrO

        @S.Short I agree!

  • itamazesme

    Dr. O:

    Does racism still exist? I answer with a resounding YES! Did it happen as the man stated it did in this case? I believe it did. However, because of the circumstances, was his decision to go on a killing rampage about racism? I don’t think so.

    I do not doubt there were hangings and other racially charged incidences. He was a black man who was hated upon, and on top of that he dated a white woman, which made them even angrier.
    There are steps this man could have taken to deal with the racism in his company-when he found out that his union rep wasn’t helping him, he could have gone over his head. When that didn’t work, I would have gone to corporate, If that didn’t work he could have gone to the news, Budweiser wouldn’t want any of that negative publicity and would have tried to handle the matter. He could of sued for Work place harrassment, won, been compensated and never looked back at a company that caused him so much turmoil. He tolerated these people’s actions. However, after being caught on tape stealing, and told to either resign or be fired, he snapped. He didn’t start a blood bath until AFTER he lost his job. He hurt his own case. If he had done this as an employee, then I would be more apt to believe it was about racism. He knew that these people were after him, why would he steal to give them reason?

    Maybe the firing incident made him lose all common sense and in his mind, he had nothing else to lose and he saw it as them making good on their threat to get rid of the *n* and he went on a rampage, but he he walked into them getting rid of him by stealing.

    Racism is still running rampang, but I feel because the race card is played too much and too often, It hurts people with valid cases of racism, when others throw the race card and its basis is shaky. He truly probably was having to deal with that on a daily basis – but to only exert himself AFTER he was caught doing something wrong, makes his accusations seem invalid.

    In light of Ms. Sherrod’s case, there truly needs to be a forum on race relations.

    • AskDrO

      @itamazesme. I don’t know if a forum would work at this point. We may be headed for another “civil war” on some level.

  • Lovely

    @Sean F,
    Your statement “the real problem here isn’t racism, the problem is what is causing ppl to increasingly lash out…” well you really answered your own question…IT IS RACSIM. Had not this man been harrased daily, lied on, dehumanized, called a nigger, nooses drawn on the bathroom wall, etc. Do you think he would have gone to work and just opened fire for no reason??!! There is only so much some pple can take. This guy was a hard worker obviously or he would not have been promoted so rapidly. Those “good ole boys” were jealous and wanted him out! Oh I bet it’s not racism either when the Tea Partiers come out with Curious George monkey’s with Obama shirt on either….Racism is alive & well!!!

    • AskDrO

      @Lovely I think that your words are well chosen and you have posted the comment of the week!

  • Jean P. Davis

    In my opinion “Racism” is most definitely alive and practiced each day. We in the more affluent areas of the country may not experience as such but it is there hiding behind closed doors, around the water coolers, in the privacy of the homes and wherever else it could happen rest assured it is going on. Many of our sisters and brothers throughout this country are faced with it more than they want to admit. It is reported but is it really dealt with in sincerity, do we really get satisfaction after “race relations” meetings, I don’t know, I hardly think so but until we as a people begin to treat each other as human beings and as God would have us “LOVE” one another we will not begin to experience life as He wants us to. There are those of us who are able to bear the pain but then there are those who aren’t as strong and reach the end of their rope and take drastic measures as did Mr. Thornton. I in no way condon what he did because taking someone’s life is certainly not going to slove anything. It does, however, make us wake up and think what else do we have to do to stop this madness. My heart goes out to each family affected and especially to his soul because I know that God was not pleased with his actions. All I could do when hearing it was pray and ask, Lord, what can we do to make this world better for all who share in this journey called life?? You who are in the field of medicine who deal with emotions, let’s continue to keep the doors of communiction open and maybe just maybe we will make the difference whether it be in a small way or on a larger magnitude, I am keeping the Faith.

    • AskDrO

      @Jean I will certainly keep the Faith. This is the dilemma that I have with this particular case, “Why did management allow this to continue for so long?” This is the case with many of my patients who eventually have to leave or go out on FMLA. I recently looked a racist supervisor in the face and said “stop e-mailing me with this racist junk.” I then resigned a few days later. I certainly realize that because of my credentials I can do just what I did, but there are many others who have to stay under this harsh and unfair treatment. I am concerned that a lot of this racially acting-out is because we have an African-American president. Many pf my patients state that they are tired. I offer them encouragement, medication management and a few days off. However, I don’t treat the world…

  • JR

    It’s disgusting that you could even imply that racial discrimination
    could be a valid excuse for this evil and cowardly act. African Americans don’t. have it as bad as they claim to. Racism has become the typical scapegoat card to use when an African American is too cowardly to take responsibility for their actions. The lack of quality black leadership doesn’t help either.
    What this guy did was wrong – period. He could have found another job,could have sought legal action if there was a legitimate racial claim,which I now doubt anyway. Instead,he resorted to the same stereotypical behavior that makes African Americans look bad in the first place – he happily resorted to violence, to ‘keep it real’. If someone called me a white devil or other racist name, I wouldn’t go on a shooting spree,because I’m a civilized human being. What’s this guys excuse? Racism isn’t gonna cut it. His actions were disgusting,cowardly and evil – period.

    • AskDrO

      @JR Thank You! I surmise that you are not Black, so you just probably would not understand.

  • r

    There you go, looking for ways to justify his barbaric behavior. Things will never change until blacks can learn to accept responsibility for their actions and admit when they’re wrong. You’re just looking for an audience. And you call yourself a doctor? Your should be discouraging this type of violence,not egging it on or looking for ways to exploit it. You should be ashamed of yourself.

    • AskDrO

      @r I am not ashamed but I am very proud of the truth. It is time to stamp out racism and put an end to the foolishness that “My” people have had to endure for so many years.

  • JR

    And to say that I “wouldn’t understand” because I’m not black is childish and ignorant. You clearly still have some growing up to do, “doctor”

    • AskDrO

      @JR I want to thank you for your openness and willingness to share your thoughts on such a controversial issue.

  • JR

    There is no controversy here. Murder is murder. You are not speaking for African Americans, but instead you are speaking for yourself.
    If you think its ok to kill someone because you think they “discriminated” against you, you’re the one who needs to see a psychiatrist.

    So, go ahead. Tell your crowd that the next time their child gets suspended or expelled from school for vandalism or fighting – tell them its ok. Don’t punish them,don’t teach them right from wrong. Just blame it on the whites. Can you be any more ignorant?

    If I was black, I’d be angry right now. I would want to stand up and show why I’m better than that mass murderer,not support him. If you support him or condone his actions, you are as much of a lowlife as he was.
    “Dr O”, MLK would have kicked you in the face for enabling this kind of behavior. That was never his vision. From one accomplished person to another, I thought that you would have been able to understand that. I think you know it’s wrong,that’s why it bothers me.

    I can go to the a trailer park and preach about the benefits of doing meth,and I might even draw a decent crowd. The vast majority of Americans,black or white, aren’t very intelligent. Exploitng that for your little circus show here is detestable.

    • AskDrO

      @JR is there some repressed anger or issues of aggression that you need to deal with at this time? I am not quite sure why my perspectives personally insults you so much! Please advise?

  • JR

    I have given you my complete,factual and articulate viewpoint. Do you see it as aggression simply because you do not agree with it? Surely you must be smart enough to know that the points that I have brought up have some merit. Despite this,instead of staying on topic and challenging or inquiring of my viewpoint, you have become defensive.

    It seems that I am unable to have an intelligent debate with you,because you have tunnel vision here.

    I have perceived racial tensions from you from the beginning,starting with your “you wouldn’t understand” remark. Respect is earned in this world. You had the discipline and motivation to become a doctor. If you hadn’t, and decided to become a drug addict or murderer instead, who’s fault would that be? You took personal responsibility for your life.

    If someone acts like a lowlife, they will get treated like one. It was Omar’s actions that have caused me to think so lowly of him. The exploitation of the word “racism” harms real victims of racism,and you might be surprised to learn this,but other races are victims of racism too.

    You could have chosen to be a role model for other African Americans,and write a blog about why violence doesn’t pay,and why hard work and determination does. But you didn’t. Why? Because you knew you would attract more of an audience by writing such a ridiculous article.

    Evil is evil. I’m no angel by any means,but I still know right from wrong. Omar’s “racism” excuse is not going to get him out of an eternity in Hell.

    • AskDrO

      @JR you must deal with your anger from within. The overtone of your remarks would be percieved by a non-clinician as threatening. However, I realize that you may have some unresolved conflicts with your own identity or Black folks in general. I do not support violence or bad behavior by Omar or anyone, but I understand the fury associated with the maltreatment of an African-American male in these United States. You could never understand this issue. America has a problem right now whether You and Others want to accept it or acknowledge the malady. Oh, and I am interested in hearty debate, you just haven’t said anything that I need to provide a counter-point to. Please advise.

  • Iverson Bell

    Another shrink on board.
    1st. Violence is inexcusable. There are ways of protesting, complaining, resolving this. It would have made an interesting case with the current administration and Justice Department.
    2nd. Obviously racism exists. Most non-minorities can only imagine what it’s like to be singled out for someone’s wrath because of being different.
    3rd. Feeling impotent in the face of racism leaves you either enraged or depressed.
    It’s amazing how many people feel empowered to pull a “Mel Gibson” and not expect any consequences now. The Birther’s even feel that they don’t have to follow military orders for deployment if they’re soldiers. The election of an African American President and the the economic situation seem to have combined to frighten/anger people. Illegal Immigrants, African-Americans, and probably Native Americans are being made the targets more and more.

    • AskDrO

      @Iverson Excellent analysis. I am sure that the readers will appreciate your words.

  • Iverson Bell

    JR. You stated that you have given a cogent logical argument. Not so. Dr. O did not justify murder or violence. MLK Jr. wouldn’t kick anyone in the face (don’t you see the irony in that statement?)
    Scapegoating either causes withdrawal (and depression) or fighting back (rage).
    I am curious as to how someone would perceive those “racial tensions”. Perhaps you saw what might be reflected from yourself ??
    Why attack, when you can discuss.
    I don’t know all of the situation with the mass murderer. In this system, is he guilty until proven innocent or vice versa ? The owner of the company makes an unsubstantiated statement about theft and you and the media accept it. The CEO of BP made a statement about an insubstantial leak of a couple of thousand gallons of oil. Is the murderer a thief? If so, then fire him, arrest him, or both. It is possible that he was not a thief, just like it was possible that the BP CEO was not telling the truth, and the doctor of the Lockerbie Bomber was not being truthful about “3 months to live”.

    • AskDrO

      @Iverson It is interesting that when we have the discussion on racism, the accepted eye deformity is ” tunnel vision” and it certainly leads to critical scapegoating and rationalization. I hope that JR is able to digest the truth. Thanks for the wonderful insight and welcome to the blog!

  • JR

    It comes down to maturity. You could call me any name you want, and it might be upsetting and hurtful,but it could never be used as an excuse for my own actions. Let’s say you were to call me a lying thief every day,does that mean I have to turn in to one? Of course not,because I have the free will to choose my outcome in life. And just as planets have stronger gravitational pulls than moons, strong parenting would prevent outside negative influences from taking over their childrens lives.

    What would you do if you had a friend who was speeding,and when stopped he said “You only pulled me over because I’m black”. If I were you, I’d be angry,because in this example your friend is using the issue of racism for his own personal,selfish reasons. Would you tell him that was wrong,or would you just make another excuse for him? Ever hear the term “police your own”? It means that if someone,who represents you or what you stand for does something to embarass you,that you step in and tell them to knock it off. I hear too many “alpha” African Americans out there who preach about racism,but very few who take proactive steps to encourage other blacks to push themselves to achieve their goals in life.

    I was walking around a supermarket last week,and saw two young African American children kicking around a box on the floor,while the parent just sat there and did nothing. She should have got up,and corrected her children. Without good parental guidance,they will respond to outside influences,or succumb to feelings of worthlessness. Or,they’ll come across someone like you who makes excuses for their behavior,then use you like a crutch.

    Although there are real victims of racism and hate crimes out there, there are many cases in which the claim of racism is simply false. Do you remember that woman who got punched by police,then everyone tried to say it was a racial issue? No. She got punched because she swung at the cop. Cause and effect. Maybe she learned her lesson.

    Its a rough world,regardless of what color,race or religion you are. You can sit there and complain about it,or rise above it to become successful and productive.

    Omar chose to give in to an evil life of crime. If you’re going to pick someone to use as an example of a victim of racism,pick someone a little higher on the food chain.

    • AskDrO

      @JR Your example of the young lady, who was being brutalized by the police and “punched in the face” is really letting me know where you stand on race issues. If I did not know you where not African-American, I know now. However, are you also a personwho has issues with people of color? Your message is vey conflicting in your comments. It really sounds like you have some unresolved issues in the area of race relation. Maybe you share a little more about the man in your mirror on this issue.

  • J

    Go ahead, use racism as a crutch because you don’t agree with me. Your blog is a perfect example of the unfortunate truth that there are individuals out there who lie about and distort perceived racism. I would have expected better from you,and would have expected more honesty and openness on these issues,but I don’t think that is going to happen. Brutalized by the police? No quite,cameras don’t lie. It shows her striking first.

    My instinct doesn’t lie,and from the beginning,I have felt that you have something against me because I am white,not that I would ever let that ruin my day. You have repeatedly brought up questions about my color,but not once had I done that to you.

    But I won’t get into a silly dispute with you,because I’m better than that. I know that there are bigger things in the world other than skin color to worry about. An unbiased,critical thinking person would have something more contructive to say,and I never judged you by your color. I am judging you by your character,and you seem like a very narrow minded,one sided person. You have an “us vs them” mentality,and nothing good can come out of that.

    Criticize me,go ahead. I won’t get mad and accuse you of disliking an entire race of people because I disagree with you. You need to grow up.

    Actions speak louder than words. Omar was dead wrong for murdering those people,no matter what they called him. If you can’t understand that,then you’re the one with the problem. How about that Florida cop killer you’re going to defend him too?

    You seem to be unable to make a distinction between civilized,contructive whites and uneducated,inbred whites from trailer parks. Think of them as the slow kid behind the counter at Burger King who you would never want talking to the media in an emergency.

    I tried to present valid issues that must be address inter and intra- racially,but you have proven to me that you are extremely one sided and biased. To be fair, its not just you. Politicians spew the same phony nonsense from their mouths.

    Think I’m ignorant? Think I’m the one with the problem? Tell me why, and please tell me you can do better than its “racial issues”. Its not. Its bahavioral issues. Stop making stupid excuses for African Americans who commit violent crimes. You can’t use that racist nonsense with me. You and I both know that blacks can do anything whites can. Every race is a little screwed up if you ask me.

    Perception is reality. If you think that everyone’s out to get you, you are only hurting yourself.

    • AskDrO

      @J Thanks for the response. I believe that maybe you are beginning to understand my perspectives a little. This issue here is that we all can be pushed into a corner and may come out fighting. If you review our disscussion I am sure you will not see any phrase or comment that even suggests that Omar’s behavior is acceptable. However, ny counter-point is that racism is not either. In essence, two wrongs don’t make a right. I am not sure that you have ever experienced unfair or biased treatment, it can be overwhelming. This is the strong point that I am trying to make clear to you. If you feel insulted,I want to apologize publicly.

  • [Blocked by CFC] Joseph Cole

    Racism truly exist & I don’t understand why anyone thinks that it doesn’t. The election of Barack Obama as president didn’t end racism. The U.S. wanted to show the world that an African American could be elected president & this would make everybody feel good. The true color of whites is revealing itself after they woke & said what have we done? Everything that the President does is under close scrunity. No president has ever been subjected to this type of scrutiny. Open your eyes & observe.

    • AskDrO

      @Joseph Cole. Thanks for the observation. The scrutiny of our dear President is certainly ridiculous. However, I am sad to share with you that there are some people, both Black and White, who feel that racism does not exist. Pure foolishness I think or denial. Thanks for your pertinent and timely insight. Looking forward to hearing more from you on the blog in the future. Afterall, you taught me in high school. Is my grammar o.k.?

  • Massa

    The world has 7 billion people, and 6 billion of them don’t like black people for good reason.

    • [Blocked by CFC] AskDrO

      @Massa What would those reasons be?

  • tisha white

    racism indeed does still truly exist,i truly was in the same situation as omar the pressure is truly to much to bear but with God’s help I am dealing with it in the right way by getting legal advice since barack’s election the whites are coming out of the closet to show just how they really feel. I am not by all mean a racist by something need to be done in the workplace to stop this sort of behavior or you will get more killings.

    • AskDrO

      @Tisha, Welcome to the Blog! You are so correct and it does seem like racism has intensified since Barack Obama became president. Here is the thing, Blacks are laying down like they did in the 60s. Trouble in Paradise.

  • Guest

    I am white.  Almost all the schools in Houston make whites a less than ten percent minority.  Desegregation has become isolation for white kids from urban middle class kids. My son is 13 and racial hate from people like you is channeled against white kids who are isolated and vulnerable.  The black boys crowd in on him from all sides pushing on him calling him a dumbass white cracker over and over, baiting him to say something in kind;  if he does the school will crucify him.
     
    You defend a guy, a grown man who committed multiple murders because he was picked on.  You say it was justifiable.  Will you also say my son is justified if he retaliates?  Hell no you won’t, you racist piece of shit.  You will do every thing you can to incite a riot and sell more of your racist propaganda.  You are just as bad as the blacks who sold fellow blacks into slavery.

    • http://www.askdro.com AskDrO

       Thank you kind sir or maim!

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