Jamal Parris Speaks: “You Are NOT A Man (Eddie Long), You Are A MONSTER!”

“I can not get the sound of his voice out of my head!”

“I can not forget the smell of his cologne!”

“I can not forget the way he made me cry many nights when I drove in his car on the way home!”

“I am not able to take enough showers to wipe the smell of his body off of me!”

This was simply devastating.  Jamal Parris broke the silence and stated, “we were a slave to a man that we loved.” He reported to FOX 5 that when he was fourteen, this man of God told him to trust him and call him “Daddy.” After he became of age the relationship became more intense and more inappropriate. What started all of this per Jamal, “he turned his back on us and had no more need (sexually) for us.” The young man then stated,” this would make Pastor Long a predator.”

Church: where do we go now? Do we continue to pray for the Bishop and not the young men? Did Pastor Jasper Williams call for the preachers to pray for the young men? By the way, just what is Atlanta praying for, a revival or cover up? I am baffled and confused, but I do know one thing: something smells rotten. Pandora’s Box is now WIDE open.

My heartfelt apologies to the young men. A concerned parent called me and advised that I had “thrown the young brothers under the bus”, which made me feel a little bad. I am just worried about the reputation of the Black church. At the end of the day, we will never be the same because there are no winners in this battle.  The Atlanta church community has forever changed. Many are turning away from the church, so, Brothers and Sisters, where do we go from here…?

Another Day the Sherman Came Through and her City of Atlanta was totally burned down-September 8, 2010..Read your history books!

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  • Essdie

    Dr. O, I apreciate your concern for the Black church but I also know that the church has withstood hatred from other faiths- racism, vandalism and embarassment. Trust me when I tell you there are more good leaders of integrity than there are fakers in the pulpit. The Black church will be just fine because in spite of it all God is good and Prayer works! Keep the faith my brother.

    • AskDrO

      @Essdie. Thanks we need that encouragement in Atlanta right about now!

  • DOA

    DAMN is all I can say!!! I am sold this man is a monster. He is preparing to reveal that he did have sexual relationships.That’s why he can’t say he didn’t do it. To make himself not look like a lie. Oh the man he says the media is portraying him as is the sexual predator but in other words to me he saying he did it. He knew one day he would get caught. He was smart about it and waited til they at or above the age of consent. This would keep him from being criminally charged. I don’t care what nobody has to say after me. I totally convinced he is a monster. You all are blind because he a PERSON of the cloth. That cloth provided excellent cover all these years. Now god snatching back the sheets and revealing his sick and twisted ass or is the devil breaching his contract? EDDIE is flesh he’s not a holy spirit. We are all of gods children lets pray heavily for everybody in trouble if u gone go all out for him. Pray for our drug dealer your robber, falsely accused who is on death row or doing life. Pray for T.I, I bet ain’t nobody doing none of that that. OH!! They criminals that’s right, they belong there. If EDDIE prevails then so what I’ll be still stuck on guilty and I won’t admit I was wrong. I know I said I would but I won’t. OJ won but we all know he killed Ron and Nicole.

    • AskDrO

      @DOA You broke that post wide-open. I hope that people will read your comment because it is both excellent and transparent as it relates to the church!

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  • [Blocked by CFC] Dee

    I find it very interesting how people are passing judgement on Bishop Long when none of this has gone to trial. Isn’t it true that a man is innocent until proven guilty? By no means am I defending him, however it seems like a whole lot of mess, and ain’t nobody happy but the devil. Does anyone ever stop to think that God is allowing this to happen? We as Christians should be trusting in God, not man. People have said that, they think Bishop is guilty because he hasn’t said anything, but that shouldn’t make him guilty. My question is: Where are the mother’s of the young men, the church members that traveled with Bishop Long because we all know that he didn’t take his accusers on trips alone. They aren’t saying anything and people know that if there were any signs of innapropriate behavior it would have been addressed. We have only heard from one accuser that was practically ambushed into giving the interview. The media blows everything out of proportion, and I feel that this is a test from God. If Bishop Long is guilty then so be it, but if not I really feel bad for those of you that put hateful words into the atmosphere about him!! WE need to pray!!

    • AskDrO

      @Dee I usually don’t disagree with readers but this is not passing judgement. This is very serious. Are you looking at the video clippings, blogs and articles? Also, have you observed his (Eddie Long’s) behavior? Is there anything else you need!

      • Toniki Hamler

        @Dee, First off, there is not a man I KNOW that would not defend himself from the highest mountain if this wasn’t true. What straight man wouldn’t say “this is a total lie, I wouldn’t ever violate a child like that, these men are liars”? What attorney can keep you from saying that? That is not discussing the case… Futhermore, why blame the mother’s. I’m a single woman and I have a son. Who’s to say that I wouldn’t have trusted “the right, good, God-fearing, anti-gay, so-called Bishop”? This fool violated these children and their parents. BOTTOM LINE. Like the Dr. said, look at his behavior. That is not the behavior of an innocent man. God might be allowing this to happen because he’s tired of false prophets playing in his house. I wish they could prosecute his nasty azz. But one thing for sure, he WILL get what he deserves.. I’m proud of Jamal for standing up and doing this so that this won’t happen to my son or other’s sons. Jamal wants a peace of mind. Jamal wants to be able to sleep at night knowing he did what he was SUPPOSE to do to make sure Eddie don’t abuse another young boy. Jamal is the damn victim here NOT Eddie Long trifling ass. Jamal has a conscience…

        • AskDrO

          @Tonika Great remarks. I am just not understanding why a small percentage of this country is seeing Bishop Long as the victim. I am sure that this is not the case.

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  • Dr. Brown

    I understand these young men looked up to the Bishop, but I still can’t see how you can look up to someone as a father figure but have a sexual relationship with him….
    I think these dudes are torn because the Bishop had many lovers and they thought they were the only one…
    I bet if they didn’t find out about the other one’s they would have continue the relationship without telling a soul…
    This case is disgusting me to the point I can careless what happens…
    I feel sorry for victims who are really molested by someone they look up too…

    • AskDrO

      @Dr. Brown isn’t incest still a problem in America and certainly pedophilia is alive and well. This story is just strange because the church allegedly was used as a frontier for manipulation. Men do fall in love with men!Moreover, if someone is taking care of you, dining you, traveling you, manipulation can become control!

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  • DOA

    Say it T!!! You know Dr O I been thinking. What if this was a white male who’s in the same shoes as bishop (mega church, luxurious lifestyle etc) and had these same 4 young black men accusing him of sexual abuse? Would all these pro Eddie people switch sides and be for the men? Probably would even though this white man is parallel to Eddie. Unh unh noooo!! Religion wouldn’t be an issue then it would be “that ( racial slurs and profanities) WAS messing with them black men , I knew it’!!” there wouldn’t be a doubt at all about the mens accusations @ Dee everybody is passing judgement both ways since that’s what you say. I’m sure you may be cursing them young men for exposing him. If he found not guilty them that won’t change nothing. Like I said earlier, OJ was found not guilty too. God not going punish us for saying what we believe. We will be forgiven. Jesus forgave his crucifiers and all others. I don’t need or care about no one in the flesh forgiving or not forgiving me.

    • AskDrO

      @DOA I think the problems is three problems with Eddie Long from hypocrisy to legality. In the middle come morality. No one, in Atlanta, really care about his sexuality as much but there is a problem with the age of the young men when this alleged manipualtion started.

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