Spencer LeGrande (4th victim) Breaks Silence: “Bishop Long You Know the Truth!”

At this juncture, what do we say & what do we do? I am a board-certified Psychiatrist but this one has got, even me, somewhat baffled. I guess what is bothering me most is the allegation of sex in the church and the fact that the “alleged manipulation” started when the alleged victims were under age. The sex allegedly  took place in several different places.  People, I am tired of saying alleged!  Parris’ even mentioned sex before service and sex after service. I have watched both videos over and over and I have tried to remain silent and neutral.  Readers,  I just can not seemingly do it at this time.   Analysis of the body language, breathing and interactions with the interviewers,  just  don’t signal dishonesty or lying to me. Initially, I really wanted to be neutral and stay on the fence. I too wanted to say, “Innocent until proven Guilty.” MY conscious won’t let me.  I don’t know if the Bishop Eddie Long  is actually guilty or innocent, but lives are being devastated as we speak.

However, what about the four young men?   What must life be like for the four guys involved in the lawsuit against Bishop Long, their former Pastor?   Thank you Spencer LeGrande for exhaling.  You will be o.k.  There are a lot of rumors that many others  may follow. (unknown count) I really  hope NOT!   I am saddened by this attack on the BLACK CHURCH.  It is my prayer that this chapter of exposure, transparency and ridicule would come to a close.  I don’t think , any conscious person, can just stand by and not lean left or right. I am reminded that Bishop Eddie Long is the leader of 25,000 members. I am sure that each of you (his members) have to now,  if you believe in him, stand radically behind your pastort in prayer and support.

In closing my prayer is that morality, hypocrisy and legality each take their proper place in this situation. I am also speaking directly to the “Spirit of Suicide.” because this thing could wreck havoc in someone’s Life. In closing remember, “If God be for us, then who can be against us!” Today is a sad day in the religious community around the world. I don’t know if we can take another live interview, confession or lawsuit. This matter is taking its toll….. I too agree, Bishop Long, “You Know the Truth!”

Be Strong Saints….Be Strong,

Dr.O

Have you had the opportunity to read and listen to the videos, what do you think? Should Bishop Long make some type of statement written or verbal? Would you remain a member of New Birth MBC? Will you remain a member of New Birth MBC? Please let me hear from you….

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  • DOA

    You know what? I believe he will admit to having these relationships. But here’s the kicker. He gone say he was abused when he was young by his pastor.” alright let’s cut to the crying scene!!”. So now he’s crying before his congregation and pleading for forgiveness. Congregation: “Aww that’s so sad let’s pray for him, he was a victim too. He need help.” Ah yeah right blow that out your a**!!! If that scenario happens to play out and they buy into that. Then they all need help. Cuz they aren’t so forgiving of all these other predators who say they were abused in early life. Prosecution is doing a kick ass job of getting this out. Just who does he have defending him? I’m telling you all. All these people in his legal circle including his wife knows that he done this. But only HE knows that he was a predator with it. Sex in the church before and after service? NAAAASTY!! He should settle resign and disappear. Oh yeah, there are more victims out there. The problem is that most rather maintain their image as being a Man,Dad, Playboy, tough guy, etc and claim victory emotionally from behind the scenes no matter how much money being awarded. Like Parris said: what man would wanna go on tv and admit a man was touching on them? Not many, even victims

    • AskDrO

      @DOA beautifully answered!

    • AskDrO

      @DOA I don’t think he can admit to any of these relationships at this time. He is probably gagged by his attorneys. However, this could get much uglier!

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  • Essdie

    Eddie Long needs to be lng-gone! There is just NO way taht this many men can make this many clear, precise accusations and ALL be wrong! Eddie is a perv of some sort and he should be locked up for psychological evalulation, once the pros like Dr. O confirm how sick this man is, he should then be treated for his mental illness. After that, all of his victims should be allowed to confront him face to face in a controlled setting so they can heal and he can fully understand how damaging his choices have been. After all that…castrate him!

    The Bible talks about avoiding & rejecting the “appearance” of evil or ungodly settings. Right now, my heart is for his other victims…his wife & children.

    Yes, he should make a statement…”I am a sick and perverted man who needs the God I have been preaching about but never really knew.”

    • AskDrO

      @Essdie You use to be a man of compassion, what happened? LOL

  • Toniki Hamler

    Dr. You know how I feel bout Eddie. I’m just glad that these men have the courage to tell the truth. One thing for sure, the truth will stand when the burning world comes to an end. These guys are not lying on this damn fool. Wrong is just wrong. My grandaddy use to say “you can roll a sh*t in flour and sugar and it’s still sh*t. Even is Eddie was my own son, if he did something like this, he should be punished as the law would allow. If he is allowed to get away with this, he won’t stop. I have issues with this too because I am a woman and the DL is killing us. Especially black woman. If people were allowed to be who they “really” are then maybe they would just prey on the weak. If Eddie is gay, then cool, he just needs to got where they let Gay folk preach. Give the world and the congregation the CHOICE of wanting to follow such a man. You can hide anything forever… What’s in you is coming out. You can only bottle it up for so long.

    • AskDrO

      @Tonika Check Out the Discussion Board. I really feel like we need to talk in our communities. There is a lot of bad stuff going on. Is mental illness pervasive in our community?

  • lashone

    I am sorry, but I feel as if he guilty! I could not imagine someone doing that to my children! The thought is just disgusting! He is suppose to be someone you could lean on, go to for advice, seeking God on a spiritual level and he uses that to his advantage to manipulate young children! How long did he think his little secret was going to remain buried?? Not long!!!! He has been exposed for the monster he is!!!!

    • AskDrO

      @lashone I understand your feelings. However, there is a divide in our community concerning the Bishop’s guilt vs. innocence.

      • lashone

        Well exactly, just where do you stand? I know we shouldn’t judge, that its in the hands of the LORD, but I just gave you my honest opinion.

        • AskDrO

          @Lashone. Right with you. The evidence is compelling!

  • Essdie

    Dr. O, I remain a person of great compassion, but I am very careful about where I express and lend it. MRS. Long has children who are or have been the age of her husbands’ victims! For her, I feel great compassion-even if she knew what ‘ol boy was up to; for her to let it go on means that he brainwashed her too! My heart is for the victims, NOT the vandal! I believe that a LARGE portion of your readers are parents…what would they do if it was their son?!!!

    • AskDrO

      @Essdie Right On! And that is what I am talking about. SOme of us want to forget the victims? I can’t!

  • brooklynkid1180

    The problem that I have with all of this is how do you let a bishop, preacher, pastor………..get to you like this.

    I have to admit, I do not attend church regularly, as a matter of fact, can not remember when I have attended church. I just wanted to put that out there. I was raised in the Baptist church and I believe in God.

    I have a problem when the congregation puts the pastor on a pedestal. He is not God. He is a man. I would never let my children address the preacher as “daddy”. I would also attend those meetings with my son, even if I had to bake cookies to be there.

    I do not feel sorry for the brainwashed 25,000 members that Eddie Long bamboozled. This cries Jimmy Swaggart, Jim Baker……even Jim Jones on a lower level.

    The reason I have problems with the church, is that they are all trying to be mega churches. With 25,000 members do you realize the resources and potential in a church like that. I am not talking cathedral windows, and sophisticated sound systems.

    I am talking about teaching the youth how to read. Responsible men going into the “bad” neighborhoods and showing young men that there is more to life than the streets. Setting up free daycare for young mothers that are trying to get work/go to school. Teaching young women/men how to carry themselves – Etiquette. The list goes on and on. The black church was our rock during the civil rights movement, and now look what has happened. With 25,000 members, people down on their luck in that area should have a place to fall.

    In a church like that, how many lawyers, doctors, politicians, teachers, nurses, administrators, bankers, accountants, etc. are in that congregation. In a church like that, these individuals are the ones that can help. People that are not professional can put in hours too. They can teach youngster how to manage households, buy groceries, hem a pair of pants even.

    I believe that Eddie Long will be guilty in the end of all of this. By the time the courts and the media gets finished with him, his reputation will be tainted one way or another. I believe that he should step down and handle his business and not bring the church down with him.

    I hate to say this, Dr O, and I probably will get yelled at. The 25,000 member congregation are STUPID. They should get rid of Eddie now and not allow their church to die in the ashes from all of this.

    Eddie Long was just the Pastor, New Birth is the Church.

    I

    • AskDrO

      @brooklykid I don’t think that they can. I believe that he disbanned the Trustee Board and has “absolute power” in this organization. In essence, I don’t believe that he reports to anyone and there is no system of checks and or balances. So the 25,000 people can’t do anything without a lot of legal stuff which would further rip this unit apart. We must pray for ourselves and individuals who are vulnerable in this situation.

  • brooklynkid1180

    They should take a page from Prince’s book……and a get an AKA

    …….lol

    • AskDrO

      @brooklynkid, Where you been lately? My what strong words? LOL

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